The gift of parent(al)s

A parent(al) is one who lineaged you, but is now grand-parent or beyond, even saying that, though, it includes the parent(s).  
Electrical ground (neutralize) on natal package: everything you were born with.  Notice that everything else is afterbirth. 
Choose those you wish to be your parent(al)s.
Notice how much of your self is lineaged materials.

The child of each generation gets permission from each parent, including the birth parent (a "bp" must approve of the child they create), to be their child (see Love Note in this blog January 3, 2011, December 30, 2009).  Set the ball rolling by choosing your own parents, with their permission (have them electrical ground), then ask each generation to ground down and choose their own parents, keep going back through time, always with agreement.  "What is this material, is it my lineage?  May I have it for my lineage?"  If it is found to be not for you, and also if you knew it wasn't for you, send it back to it's origin.  If it is yours hone the proper connection.

Deism is the practice of believing whatever makes sense to you.  It seems deists are ancestor, parent(al), worshipers, and indeed, that's how I treat it.  See Spirit Houses (this blog June 28, 2013) for caring for the tube(s) between parent(al)s and child.  "How might I keep you comfortable?"  Encourage each generation to allow their environment to purposefully accommodate their connection(s).

Another helpful chore for strengthening parent(al) relationships is to establish "non-transference".  Agree, with parent(al)s, that the feelings, love and care expressed in mental/emotional/auric/physical interaction is non-romantic and psychically/bodily safe, it is the development of familial-philia.  "Let's agree to a non-transference relationship, so we can focus on our love relationship as parent(al)s and child, I was part of your body, now I require sexual and intellectual independence."  This technique can be a helpful in many other situations as well, development of friendship with non-romantic and psychically/bodily safe (this blog December 1, 2016), with associates and relatives.  One might suggest the agreement be time sensitive or conditional, if that is more appropriate. 

Let your self become the clean happy altar of your ancestors' affection. You must tell them how to treat you.  Stay off your body, let their energy connect to you, while staying outside of you, imagine stepping into their energy like a baggy.  Some parent(al)s give their child the opportunity to choose for itself if it wants to have its energy metabolisms held in tight, choose, and tell the parent(al)s of the choice.  It is optimal to be held in on the metabolism channels.  "I hope to have my energy cared for and kept on appropriate metabolism channels.  Please allow myself/metabolisms to be clean and safe."

What's parasiting the situation?

Did you ever have a friend that didn't try to parasite you?  That didn't try to control you from within?  That didn't treat your body like a communication device to ride in or a table to set things on?  What about a friend that you didn't parasite, that found your families and posses safe to be around?

You must even check the "fence" of your existence, which is the connected stream of energy that remains even as you encompass others while you travel in the World.  Energy that passes across your fence contains your dna, and for that reason, should be slipped back to self, rather than being pushed, pulled. attracted, driven.  The fence is like a ribbon that can be kept beautifully separate from its environment.  This fence is the cosmic tube, see March 15, 2015 in this blog.

Keep your energy grounded and on the proper electrical channels. 

Draw in your own energy first... how can one complain if one is a perpetrator?  You may flow it forward or backward from wherever it has gotten off to, person, place, thing, mineral, vegetable, animal, direct current, neutral current, alternating current, all total. 

Collapse your energy to self/cosmic tube, while allowing everything that was pushed, pulled, attracted to take up a more natural, new position in space, separate from manipulation.

Let everyone a friend be, a potential loved one, safe by your care. 
All one people, on our separate family tethers.

For some thoughts on cleaning see July 1, 2016 and August 8, 2015 in this blog.