The gift of parent(al)s

A parent(al) is one who lineaged you, but is now grand-parent or beyond, even saying that, though, it includes the parent(s).  
Electrical ground (neutralize) on natal package: everything you were born with.  Notice that everything else is afterbirth. 
Choose those you wish to be your parent(al)s.
Notice how much of your self is lineaged materials.

The child of each generation gets permission from each parent, including the birth parent (a "bp" must approve of the child they create), to be their child (see Love Note in this blog January 3, 2011, December 30, 2009).  Set the ball rolling by choosing your own parents, with their permission (have them electrical ground), then ask each generation to ground down and choose their own parents, keep going back through time, always with agreement.  "What is this material, is it my lineage?  May I have it for my lineage?"  If it is found to be not for you, and also if you knew it wasn't for you, send it back to it's origin.  If it is yours hone the proper connection.

Deism is the practice of believing whatever makes sense to you.  It seems deists are ancestor, parent(al), worshipers, and indeed, that's how I treat it.  See Spirit Houses (this blog June 28, 2013) for caring for the tube(s) between parent(al)s and child.  "How might I keep you comfortable?"  Encourage each generation to allow their environment to purposefully accommodate their connection(s).

Another helpful chore for strengthening parent(al) relationships is to establish "non-transference".  Agree, with parent(al)s, that the feelings, love and care expressed in mental/emotional/auric/physical interaction is non-romantic and psychically/bodily safe, it is the development of familial-philia.  "Let's agree to a non-transference relationship, so we can focus on our love relationship as parent(al)s and child, I was part of your body, now I require sexual and intellectual independence."  This technique can be a helpful in many other situations as well, development of friendship with non-romantic and psychically/bodily safe (this blog December 1, 2016), with associates and relatives.  One might suggest the agreement be time sensitive or conditional, if that is more appropriate. 

Let your self become the clean happy altar of your ancestors' affection. You must tell them how to treat you.  Stay off your body, let their energy connect to you, while staying outside of you, imagine stepping into their energy like a baggy.  Some parent(al)s give their child the opportunity to choose for itself if it wants to have its energy metabolisms held in tight, choose, and tell the parent(al)s of the choice.  It is optimal to be held in on the metabolism channels.  "I hope to have my energy cared for and kept on appropriate metabolism channels.  Please allow myself/metabolisms to be clean and safe."