Friday, September 25, 2020

Closer to known

Though I feel legitimately cisgen'd, I appreciate the concept of fluidity in matters of self-identity.  I looked online for "cis" prefix, it indicated "on this side of; on the side of the speaker... Often contrasted with trans- or ultra-." Now  I'm enbracing ultragendered, as we all may.  Maybe, for me, I'm ultragen'd because I think it's been my idea forever.
How can everyone be cisidentified or ultraidentified and feel known and accepted by their environment from the beginning of their existence?  Freedoms for exploration is necessary, with a mind on age appropriatness, legality (over 18), consent-ualism, and safety. 

Behaving authentically, as soon as one realizes how to...hopefully innate, is a goal for all of us to seek diligently. 
There are biological reasons to be authentic to my eyes, not just social.  I notice the core of rot that permeates those who are sarcastic, cruelly unfriendly, self-harming, and/or puppetish.  See this blog on March 9, 2018 Spray Lessen.  I have to say, to myself and my culture: Are you authentic?  Every moment you can do better.  It doesn't mean sharing everything, it just means believing those things you do say and portray and striving to be accurate. 

I mentioned berdash in this blog on January 15, 2016 Sugar + Puppenspiel  Maybe because berdash embrace the pronoun "it" for themselves and others, they seem to have less issue with gender (style)- and sex (physical organs)-dysphoria.

Electrical grounding on natal material, everything you were born with, is a good step to understanding oneself's truest desires.  Some of the material grounding is unnecessary and can be pushed off, backing it up the way it came on.  Some is microbiome which may stay with the body.  Some is potential to chose for lineage.  See the root of this on this blog January 3, 2011, a love note.

Opgen'd, like open, like opinion, like not ghost written, like operational, like options, like original post, seems a useful aim for child rearing and conduct as one discovers one's own preferences.

I saw a beautiful rainbow and it melted in me, it is me.  
And it had magenta in it.  And it was the whole package.

Let's have pleasure being ultraEarth'd, while we're at it.

Electrical ground all the time.





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